Fospice

If you haven’t heard the term before, fospice isn’t an exotic spice or some millennial slang. Fospice is, however, something profoundly indescribable. It’s an experience that juxtaposes all that is happy and joyful and melds it with an excruciating heartbreak. In the dog rescue business we have plenty of families looking for puppies and bouncy dogs.

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Josiah in the shelter

Josiah came into the rescue not so young (approximately 10-11 years old) and not so bouncy (limited vision and hearing, raspy breathing, vomited frequently).

So how would rescues convince families to foster a hospice dog? I won’t even try, so instead I’ll tell you a story…It’s The Life of Josiah. There’s a bit of drama, a throne, a Pinocchio transformation, and Curious Case of Benjamin Button.

Jillian and Amanda were excited to be in their first house, and in September of 2018 fostering Josiah would make it a home. Of course Josiah was going to make Jillian and Amanda work for it. The dangling of food would not fool Josiah into giving free kisses. He was aloof, and his fosters were going to work to gain his trust. Slowly Josiah was opening up, and before long he was described as being their shadow, following Jillian and Amanda around. It might not seem like a major milestone, but the first time Josiah elected to sit on the couch was an exciting moment. After that, the couch was described as his ‘throne.’

And after the conquering of the couch, Josiah discovered that belly rubs felt pretty good.  

He was transforming. Josiah went from a shell of a dog dying in a 4-by-8 box to a real dog with adventures, warm beds, and a loving family of his own.

But the magic didn’t stop there. It happened during Josiah’s other favorite thing: ‘walk time.’ Suddenly this 10-11 year old German Shepard mix that was hard of hearing and seeing, curiously turned into a young bouncy puppy.

Josiah passed on August 25, 2019, having experienced a wonderful life with his moms Jillian and Amanda. Although Josiah’s loss was sudden and can be described as an excruciating heartbreak, there are zero regrets. Fospice is a profoundly indescribable experience and if anyone has the opportunity to foster a senior or hospice dog, I am certain you would feel the same.

Dogs Seeking Humans to Foster

No we didn’t get this backwards. While we are grateful to our fosters and volunteers, let’s be honest…part of the reason why many people choose to foster or volunteer (besides being a good human being and earning good karma points) is because dogs give back that unexplainable, unconditional thing.  It’s not really all that selfless.  If you are a dog person you’ll know exactly what I mean.

San Diego has the largest concentration of military personnel, which means San Diego is home to many people from other parts of the country and most likely missing their homes.

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Kaitlin and pittie, Annie

Our volunteer Kaitlin from Wisconsin has been in San Diego since December 2017 and is currently a Navy Operations Specialist. Kaitlin expressed that when she first moved to San Diego she felt homesick and lonely.  Her mom suggested finding a rescue.  Annie (pittie mix, 8 years young), in the pink scarf, had only one prerequisite; that her human share in a bit of fashion sense.  Annie approved and is happy to foster Kaitlin during her stint here in San Diego. 

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Tyler and Labrador/Shar-Pei mix, Pepe

Tyler from New Jersey didn’t grow up with a dog but is unquestionably a dog person. Tyler has been stationed in San Diego for two and half years and plans to go to college and study finance when he completes his tour.  Until then, Pepe (lab/shar-pei mix, approximately 1 year old) certainly doesn’t mind fostering Tyler and being his ‘wing-dog’.  Having a ‘walking dog’ date is the new Tinder for meeting girls. 

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Grace and Labrador mixes, Layla and Rudolph

Grace started out as an aviation electrician and is now a Marine barracks manager. Of the four military branches, the Marines has the lowest percentage of women.  It could not have been easy for Grace in this tough male-dominate environment.  She certainly missed her dog Pepper back home in Virginia, so she sought to find a rescue with larger dogs.  Layla (lab/golden retriever mix, 2 years old) in the pink scarf, and Rudolph (lab/dane mix, 2 years old) were looking to help any human but specifically sympathized with shy humans.  Looks like all parties are all smiles.

Hopefully in some small way we (Annie, Pepe, Layla, Rudolph and the rest of the Labs and Friends team) are able to provide a little bit of comfort and support.  Thank you to our service men and women!